Here are the questions for Garlic and Sapphires by Ruth Reich
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Thursday, March 6, 2025
Preparation Questions for Discussion 3/17/25 of Garlic and Sapphires, by Ruth Reichl
Sunday, February 16, 2025
We Find an Imperfect But Improved Solution to the Problem of Unwanted Pregnancy
Thanks to Marcia, we had an unusual discussion that was interesting, well-attended, and full of hope! We read Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way to Think About Abortion, by Gabrielle Blair. In this book, Blair presents what could be the best, safest, and most inspired solution to the abortion problem in the United States and anywhere else! In a nutshell: because men are fertile 24-7 from maturity throughout their lives, and whereas women are fertile for less than 1 day per month, society should be placing the responsibility for avoiding unwanted pregnancies on men rather than women. Three men joined our discussion, and another sent a written statement explaining a slightly different point of view. Thanks to everyone who participated in discussing this sensitive topic, especially our 4 men!
Though we didn’t take a vote, I got the impression that most
or all of us felt that this book’s potential solution to minimize unwanted
pregnancies (and, therefore, abortions) was refreshing and simple! Many people
already understand the facts mentioned in the book pertaining to the difficulties,
time required, financial costs, and health risks women face when they take
responsibility for birth control. These difficulties are inherent
in women’s but not men’s biology. Men of many couples willingly assume the
responsibility for preventing unwanted pregnancy. What is missing is a cultural
commitment to these efforts and to men becoming aware and accepting of them
from youth.
We presented a few disagreements with the information in the
book, mostly with the strength of the guarantee against pregnancy that men
could obtain via the suggested pregnancy-avoiding methods. “It takes two to
tango,” was said during the discussion. The book did not ignore the statistical
possibilities of pregnancy based on the methods advocated but showed that the methods
minimize those possibilities. Of course, an unwanted pregnancy, even one that
was carefully avoided, causes disruption in the pregnant mother’s life and
often in the father’s life, too. Compared with the usual choices our society tends
to offer to healthy couples, especially now that legal abortion has become a
more rare, difficult, or unreachable choice; Ejaculate Responsibly offers
important choices men can be fairly safe with, that would minimize the possibilities
of surprise pregnancies.
Saturday, December 21, 2024
We End 2024 With a Lovely Potluck Lunch and a Discussion about Quilting
At our Holiday Party, we enjoyed lunch at Joyce’s beautiful home with a view of the San Gabriel River and then discussed The Quilter’s Apprentice, by Jennifer Chiaverini. Marcia told us the author has written 34 novels. The book we read is the first in a series called “The Elm Street Quilts” that includes 21 books about the same characters, plus 3 short stories and a reader’s guide. The book we read seemed like a standalone novel, with good character development; stressful situations and interactions among the characters; and a seemingly complete conclusion, with resolutions of problems. Everyone enjoyed the book, which Marcia purposely chose for our party because of its straightforward story and simplicity, plus the extra interest of quilting.
Four of us brought quilts to the party. Patricia brought a 9-square piece of a quilt pattern that her daughter had designed and sewed. She also showed us a scrapbook-style collection of photos of fabric designs her daughter had created for her job as a fabric designer. Claudia brought a quilt her husband's aunt had made. Marcia and Susan both brought more than one quilt that they
had made. The quilts were all beautiful! Susan had made quilts for her 2
daughters when they were babies and had avoided using the color pink. She also
brought a picture of a beautiful quilted jacket she had made for one of her grown
daughters recently. This jacket is mostly pink, because her daughter loves that
color! Marcia brought quilts she had made for her family. One of her quilts was
made of a fabric featuring several different kinds of dogs.
Happy Holidays to all! Next year will be a great year for
the New Neighbors of Greater Round Rock Book Discussion Group!
Sunday, September 29, 2024
We Learn Many Reasons Why We Sleep
Ten wide-awake
Book Clubbers met to talk about Why We Sleep, by Matthew Walker. Although the group gave a general “thumbs up”
about the book, there were complaints: Here are most of them, without attaching
them to anyone specific. Many at the meeting contributed to this list!
More than just me fell asleep while reading Why We Sleep
Too clinical and not entertaining enough
First half of the book was repetitive, boring
Better book to skip through rather than read cover-to-cover
Sweeping generalizations about best sleep habits
More attention on working people than on those moving into
their retirement years, thus less relevant to some of us
Everybody at
the meeting admitted to having some sleep problems. I handed out several sleep scales
for everyone to look at. It’s easy to find these online, and there are probably
more:
The Pittsburgh Sweep Quality Index with some instructions for
evaluating it.
SATED Questionnaire
The Epworth Sleepiness Scale
Sleep Scale from the Medical Outcomes Study
When we began
discussing the questions, there were a few that were trick questions, e.g., Question
#1 The author didn’t mention any organs of the body that don’t benefit from
sleep.
Question #2 Making
a list of consequences of not getting enough sleep regularly: Some of us added
some consequences that weren’t mentioned in the book:
Susan: Memory
retention (this valid consequence was dealt with by some experiments the author
described later in the book)
Marcia: The
tiredness nurses experience working a 12-hour shift regularly (not to mention their
extra shifts and taking over shifts to help co-workers).
Cindy: Young
children can develop symptoms of autism by not sleeping enough.
Joyce: Sleep-deprived
children can be diagnosed, sometimes incorrectly, with ADHD (attention-deficit
hyperactivity disorder).
We talked
some about the studies Walker described. Among the questions, there was a listing
of a critical article someone had written about Why We Sleep accusing
the author of massaging the data from the studies he described.
Joyce said that the statistics in the studies tended to be very detailed, and in some cases very large numbers were used. She explained that the larger the study sample (number of people, rats, etc.), the smaller the differences the study can detect. In some studies, very small amounts were said to be doubled or tripled, but these numbers could refer to “statistical significance,” which is measured in very small decimal numbers. When, for example, a statistical significance of 0.003 is doubled, that can indicate as small an amount as 0.006, whereas use of the word “doubled” gives the reader the impression that the significance was large. We had some good discussion about the studies and the criticisms.
We all
enjoyed a quote from the book that Marcia read to us about what the obstetrician
might say to a brand new mother right after delivery: “Your child will, for the
rest of his life, repeatedly lapse into a state of apparent coma; and while his
body lies still, his mind will oft be filled with stunning bizarre
hallucinations.”
Our discussion ranged from studies to sleep history to sleep deficits working people have because of schedules, long drives, and conflicting family obligations. Thinking of children, we discussed sleep needs, school activities that meet before and after the core school day, and the problems that can arise from lack of enough sleep and often be ignored or misdiagnosed. I thought we touched on much of the variety of sleep-related topics in the book. We agreed that the book is a valuable study of sleep and has good recommendations in it!
Wednesday, August 28, 2024
As Texas Citizens, We Consider Texas Politics
Mr. Texas: A Novel, by Lawrence Wright, was a mixture of satire, social commentary, and a good story, with some well-developed characters and many adjuvant characters. It bordered on being an exposé about Texas politics but was published as fiction. Cindy kept our discussion on track, and we went through all the questions and had a dynamic discussion about the story, the characters, and the implications about Texas politics!
Some of the
questions we discussed:
Did any of the fictional
characters remind you of real-life politicians, and/or which real-life
politicians surprised you in the book?
Lydia gave
us a complete answer on this one! She explained, “When the Attorney General, a
pious crook, was caught fixing up a girlfriend with a well-paying job with a
real estate developer (several cries of 'Paxton' were heard at this point in
our discussion), L.G., in exchange for settling a damaging lawsuit, not only
managed to squash the whistleblower at the plate, but he got the Attorney General’s
wife elected to the U.S. Senate!"
What was
the funniest part of the book for you?
I thought the beginning was the funniest. It made me laugh out loud, when L.G. was asking Sonny to run, Sonny was still innocent and somewhat clueless, and the reader was just catching on, along with Sonny. Everyone found the Pats who ran the talk show funny. Patricia was amused by Sonny’s responsibility to meet his wife’s ovulation schedule, when they were trying to conceive during the time when Sonny was having meetings. He ran up against that responsibility monthly, each time getting sillier and more outrageous!
Did
you find anything in the book to be a foretelling of what is happening now?
We noted
that the problems in the book were the current Texas Legislature problems. Gun
control, climate change, and school vouchers were mentioned. We didn’t even
need to discuss immigration. Marcia and Carla noted that the separation of
church and state has become less distinct lately, with Texas working on
legislating that Christianity be taught in schools. Lisa said that when she moved
to Texas, George Bush’s political visions were fearsome to her and her fellow educators.
Also concerning schools in Texas, Michel could hardly believe that Texas public
school curriculum doesn’t include sex education.
Abortion
issues are blatant in Texas, and this issue has moved beyond the understanding
of most legislators, as they want to outlaw in-vitro fertilization (IVF) along with abortions. Carla
mentioned that if all IVF embryos have the legal right to be kept alive, this
would incur costs, such as paying rent in temperature-controlled space (forever?)
for those who use IVF to build their
families. Marcia told us about a theory that places most of the blame for the
popularity of abortions on men, considering men basically responsible for
unwanted pregnancies.
What
was your takeaway message from this book and your role in it?
Carla summed it up with "What you're looking for is looking
for you." Cindy suggested that more citizens should vote in the primaries,
because that's where the candidates stem from.
Patricia said, "The Lord's battle is fought in the Texas
legislature." She became more sympathetic to local politics after reading Mr.
Texas. There was some discussion as to the influence of good looks among
the candidates on election outcomes. We mentioned various times that each
person should vote responsibly, which includes both learning about the
candidates and voting.
Monday, July 8, 2024
Preparation for Discussion of Mr. Texas August 19th
Mr. Texas book club questions
1. What was your favorite quote from the book?
2. Did any of the fictional characters remind
you of real-life politicians and/or which real-life politicians surprised you
in the book?
3. What was the funniest part of the book for
you?
4. Would you vote for Sonny Lamb?
5. Did you find anything in the book to be a
foretelling of what is happening now?
6. How is real-life TX legislature stranger than
fiction?
7. What was your takeaway message from this book
and your role in it?
8. Do you agree with Angela that it’s “hard to
hate a belief without hating the believer”?
Songlist: South of Round Rock TX by Dale Watson, Travis
County by Gary Clark, Jr., Miles and Miles of Texas by Asleep at the Wheel,
Austin by Pat Green
Hierarchy
of Power:
1. Odell Peeples 2. Lobbyists (LD). 3. Governor 4. Lt. Governor
5.
The Other Place 6. Big Bob 7. Committee
Chairs 8. Chair of Calendars 9. Freedom Caucus 10. Religious Zealots 11. Frat Boys 12. Liberals
13.
Sonny Agree or disagree? Do women have power?